One of the most common questions in today’s dating world is how to convince a man of your love. My clients often feel trapped in a cycle of dating men that don’t want to commit. I want you know you are not the only one and deserve a man who is high-value who shares your values. You shouldn’t doubt your value or question all you know about men because you haven’t yet found the one.
Why do so many women waste their time with non-committal males? Some men stay with women simply because they can’t find anyone else. In this case, she fills the void until someone better comes along. He would like to be with someone he can commit to. You may be imagining a bright, long-term future with him but he is aware of his limited commitment and is fine with it. Guess what? But guess what?
What to do to convince a man to commit:
Are your values, needs and boundaries non-negotiables?
It is easy to end up in a relationship that does not match your values if you do not clarify them. The needs are the “must haves” that make a relationship healthy. Values are standards that represent your true essence, and give your relationship greater meaning. The boundaries you set will tell your partner what you’re willing to compromise and give. Confident women are those who have their needs, values and boundaries clearly defined.
Are you over-functioning in dating or a relationship with someone?
Each woman has incredible strength that she can use to build a strong connection with the man they are dating. But every now and then, her inner critic (which I refer to as the inner bitch), will begin to judge her for being unworthy or not enough. It may lead her to over-functioning unconsciously. The Love Saboteur is a unique way of functioning in romantic relationships. Your love sabotaging behaviors are designed to protect you, but they can be detrimental and counterproductive in a relationship. Take this quiz to find out your love personality and how you tend to over-function when in love
Do you tap into your feminine power enough?
The feminine energy is the energy of receiving. Men are attracted to feminine women and love to commit to them. Women can be smart, loving and masculine and still radiate a masculine vibe. They may be anxious, doubt themselves or not put their own needs first.
You can access positive feelings by aligning yourself with your Female Self – someone who is in touch with her love personality, without having to over-function. These emotions can be curiosity, empathy, clarity, trust or creativity. Your confidence will be boosted if you stay connected to your feminine side. This is one of the most sexiest traits a woman could have! To help you reclaim your irresistible Feminine power, download my Irresistible Woman’s Guide.
Answering these questions honestly will help you gain clarity on your dating approach and how to better align your thoughts and actions with your authentic self. If you are already working to improve yourself in any or all of these areas I applaud your dedication. You won’t need to worry about how to convince a man of your love once you begin to work on these areas. You’ll be attracted to men who are better suited to you.
Every woman deserves to find a man that is perfect for her. Do not settle for less. You’re worth it!